It is Quite interesting.
So I Thought I'd Share it With You !!!
What A Muslim Husband Should Be Like...
1. Dress Up For Your Wife, Look Clean And Smell Good..
When Was The Last Time You Went Shopping For Designer Pyjamas?
Just Like The Husband Wants
His Wife To Look Nice For Him,
She Also Wants Her Husband To Dress Up For Her Too.
Remember That The Prophet (PBUH) Would Always Start With Miswak When Returning Home And Always Loved The Sweetest Smells.
2. Use The Best Names For Your Wife.
Call Your Wife By The Most Beloved Names To Her, And Avoid Using Names That Hurt Their Feelings.
3. Don't Treat Her Like A Fly. We Never Think About A Fly in Our Daily
Lives Until it 'Bugs' Us. Similarly, A Wife Will Do Well All Day,
Which Brings No Attention From The Husband,
Until She Does Something To 'Bug' Him Don't Treat Her Like This;
Recognize All The Good That She Does
And Focus On That.
4. If You See Wrong From Your Wife, Try Being Silent And Do Not Comment!
This is One Of The Ways The Prophet (PBUH) Used When He Would See
Something inappropriate From His Wives (R..A). It's A Technique That Few
Muslim Men Have Mastered.
5. Smile At Your Wife Whenever You See Her
And Embrace Her Often..
Smiling is Sadaqah And Your Wife is Not Exempt From The Muslim Ummah.
Imagine Life With Her Constantly Seeing You Smiling.
Remember Also Those Ahadith When The Prophet (PBUH) Would Kiss His Wife Before Leaving For Salaah, Even When He Was Fasting.
6. Thank Her For All That She Does For You.
Then Thank Her Again! Take For Example A Dinner At Your House. She Makes The Food,
Cleans The Home,
And A Dozen Other Tasks To Prepare.
And Sometimes The Only Acknowledgment She Receives is That There Needed To Be More Salt in The Soup.
Don't Let That Be; Thank Her!
7. Ask Her To Write Down The Last Ten Things You Did For Her That Made Her Happy.
Then Go And Do Them Again. It May Be Hard To Recognize What Gives Your Wife Pleasure. You Don't Have To Play A Guessing Game, Ask Her And Work On Repeating Those Times in Your Life.
8. Don't Belittle Her Desires.
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